Harbor for Co-Parents

Everything you need to manage expenses, schedules, and communication with your co-parent — all in one secure app. Start solo or invite both parents; Harbor works either way.

At a glance

Harbor is $9.99/month or $49.99/year per person after a 7-day trial and includes messaging, expenses, a custody calendar, and Temperature Check. Use the app named in a court order if one is specified.

Price: $9.99/month or $49.99/year after a 7-day trial
Billing: Subscription per person
Platforms: iOS, Android, and web
Available in: the US and Canada
Works solo: Yes — one parent can start without the other onboarded
Tone check: Temperature Check scores draft tone and offers a calmer rewrite before send

If a court order names OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents, or another app, use the named app. Harbor is not a substitute for a specified platform.

Works if only one parent joins

Start Harbor solo. Log expenses, keep a custody calendar, and build a record before the other parent accepts an invite. You do not need both parents onboarded on day one.

Temperature Check vs ToneMeter

Harbor Temperature Check scores a draft in conversation context and offers a calmer rewrite before you send. It is included in the paid plan. OurFamilyWizard ToneMeter is the closest incumbent feature and usually sits on higher paid tiers.

Features